I want to keep the blog public

okay, so i want to keep my blog public. but i have a favor to ask of any of my friends and family who have our full name's listed on the quick links panel. would you mind just listing us as jon and darby and not with our last name? i know there are a few crazies out there and I'd love to stay linked on your blog's, but if you could remove our last name that would be appreciated! i don't want to get a real blog stalker who knows too much. thanks darby